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In
the past months, I have read and reviewed these resources as
part of my healing. I recommend all of them. They
are listed in the order in which they were written.
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NOTHING SACRED: WHEN SEX INVADES THE PASTORAL RELATIONSHIP
by Marie M. Fortune. Harper and Row. 1989.
$10.00. This is a case history of clergy sexual abuse in
a protestant church by the founder of the Center for the Prevention
of Sexual and Domestic Violence. Several women accused
their pastor of sexually abusing them; it took three years for
him to be removed and the parish was split.
SEX
IN THE FORBIDDEN ZONE: WHEN MEN IN POWER-DOCTORS, CLERGY, TEACHERS,
AND OTHERS-BETRAY WOMEN'S TRUST by Peter Rutters,
M. D. Fawcett Paperbacks. 1989. $5.99. A Jungian
analyst, Rutters explains why sexual behavior is always wrong
in relationships involving power, trust, and dependency and why
professionals fail to police their own organization.
JUDGMENT 1990 PG-13 89 minutes.
This is a video of an HBO movie based on the true story of a
priest in Louisiana now serving a twenty year sentence for pedophilia.
It may be available for rent at your local video store.
A
SECRET WORLD: SEXUALITY AND THE SEARCH FOR CELIBACY
by A. W. Richard Sipe. 1990. Brunner/Mazel.
$29.95. For twenty-five years Sipe, a psychotherapist,
has been treating priests with sexual problems and studying those
who do achieve celibacy.
SEX
IN THE PARISH
by Karen Lebacqz and Ronald G. Barton. Westminster/John
Knox Press. 1991. $14.99. This book explores
the ethics of sexual contact between clergy and parishioners.
"IF
YOU HAVE BEEN SEXUALLY ABUSED OR HARASSED: A GUIDE TO GETTING
EFFECTIVE HELP IN THE ELCA". By Dr. Mary D. Pellauer
et al. 26 pp. 1991. Available from ELCA Distribution
Service, Box 1209, Minneapolis, IN. 55440. Price $1.00
each plus postage of $2.50 for orders of $1 to $10. This
pamphlet is sold from reading racks in Evangelical Lutheran churches.
Imagine if Catholic Churches had such a thing! Besides
insisting churches should be a safe place, it has a great list
of resources. May
be out of print now. Call and ask it be reprinted!
1-800-328-4648
THE
SECRET SIN: HEALING THE WOUNDS OF SEXUAL ADDICTION
by Mark Lasser, Ph.D. Zondervan. 1992. $8.99. Lasser
is a sex addict and former pastor who shares his personal experiences
and offers hope for healing. New Title: Faithful and True
: Sexual Integrity in a Fallen World
BROKEN
COVENANT by Charles
M. Sennott. Simon and Schuster. 1992. $23.00.
This is the story of Fr. Bruce Ritter, founder of Covenant House
for runaways, and his sexual abuse of children who had turned
to him in trust.
LEAD
US NOT INTO TEMPTATION: CATHOLIC PRIESTS AND THE SEXUAL ABUSE
OF CHILDREN
by Jason Berry. Doubleday. 10/92. $22.50. Berry has
been writing about clergy sexual abuse and interviewing priests
all around them country for ten years making him the best informed
lay person on the subject.
YOU
MUST BE DREAMING
By Barbara Noel, with Karen Watterson. Poseidon Press.
1992. $21.00. This woman, sexually abused by her renowned
psychiatrist, tells of finally getting him suspended from his
professional organizations.
THE GENERAL'S DAUGHTER by Nelson DeMille.
Warner Books. 1992. Ten years after her betrayal
a woman is found dead. "Just forget it ever happened"
does not work!
The book
has been made into a movie with the memorable line, "Betrayal
is worse than rape!"
SEXUAL
ABUSE IN CHRISTIAN HOMES AND CHURCHES by Carolyn
H. Heggen. Herald Press. 1993. Dr. Haggen, an Albuquerque
psychotherapist, writes about how both theology and church practices
lead to victimization of Christians.
FALL
FROM GRACE
by Andrew M. Greeley. Putnam. 3/93. $22.95. Priest
and author with 15 million books in print in this, his most recent
novel, Greeley educates about sexual and political abuse in the
church and domestic violence while entertaining with romance
and suspense.
BOYS
OF ST. VINCENT This is a powerful video of the sexual
abuse by Christian Brothers in Canada. There are copies
for rent at my local Hastings.
How
Little We Knew: Collusion and Confusion with Sexual Misconduct
by Dee Ann Miller. Prescott Press. 1993. $11.00
Sexually assaulted while serving as a missionary with her husband
by a fellow missionary, Dee's greatest trauma came from her church
when she spoke out.
A
Gospel of Shame: Children, Sexual Abuse, and the Catholic Church
by Elinor Burkett and Frank Bruni. Viking. 1993.
$22.50. Two reporters interviewed dozens of survivors,
experts, and bishops revealing horrendous abuse of trust and
silence by the church.
The Truth about Malarkey
by Dee Ann Miller. First Books. 2000. $13.98.
This is a novel about the effects on a congregation when the
pastor sexually abused parishioners.
The
Hired Hand: a case of Clergy Abuse by Donna E. Scott. AmErica
House. 2001. $16.95. Some pastors are
Good Shepherds, but some are just Hired Hands. These exploit
the sheep they are suposed to care for.
The Crime of Father Amaro or
El Crimen del Padre Amaro. 2002. Here is a
movie made in Mexico about priests sexually abusing women, among
their other sins. Available on video or DVD.
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